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Spirituality: Authenticity
by Anita Charlot

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Happy New Year! It is that time again; time for new beginnings, new resolutions and new outlooks on life. I want to say thank you again for allowing me to share with you the things that are a big part of my spirit. I enjoy writing them as much as you enjoy reading them. It is because of you that I am the person I am today.

Big change happening this year in Anita and PHU INC.'s world; nothing new, a continuation based purely on FAITH of what I started four years ago. You see, the Web site was the first public announcement of my vision. My book Poetic Growing Pains was my first-born and since then I have continuously given birth to new projects, products every day only without the time necessary to bring those things into fruition.

Well, I have decided to completely separate from Corporate America for a while ( I'm claiming permanently ) and pursue my vision FULL TIME! Was this a scary decision for me? Of course it was. Do I second-guess my decision every now and then? Yes, I do, this is a big step and one can't help but have those thoughts of your inner judge floating around inside your head. Have I experienced mixed emotions, old fears rearing their heads and even new ones popping up out of nowhere? YES! But I'm stepping THROUGH my fear and creating my own reality.

My vision has grown tremendously and spending time working for someone else, doing a job that does not feed my spirit in any way, doesn't allow me the time to focus on my hearts desire. So, after careful thought, prayer and unlimited support from my loving partner, I decided to walk away from it. Could you find the courage to do something of this magnitude? Do you believe in the power of your own ability to create the world that you want? Do you remember the line 'Build it and they will come' from the movie Field of Dreams? I do and that is what I'm practicing this year. I will live by my company slogan by Harmonizing My Life ... One Area At A Time.

Every year I talk to you about stepping out on faith; quieting the voices inside; following your dream; living your life authentically—and now I've decided that the best way to teach you something is to have fully embraced it myself. Therefore, I have put my money, my faith, my nerves, my sanity and my spirit where my heart is. I will be releasing this month my new book The 7 Principles for Living Your Life Purrfectly Authentic™ and next month, just in time for Valentine's Day, I will be releasing the long-awaited 5 Phases of Dating ... Without Losing Sight of Your Purrfectly Authentic™ Self. Both of these will be available in e-Book. Later in the year, I will record them on CD for your listening pleasure with additional unedited commentary.

You can learn more about this year's books and more by visiting the Web site info page at I hope you enjoy them as much as I enjoyed moving them from my spirit to their electronic form. Also I am extending the reduced price to the end of this month as some of you might not have known about the pre-release pricing.

To read the second half of this article, you can log on to the Web site: and click on Founder's Words. Until then ... seek to live your life by being Purrfectly Authentic™

Living Purrfectly Authentic™, Anita

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