With his poignant words about overcoming the challenges of being a gay Asian through compassion, responsibility and self-reflection, Evan K. was honored for winning the first Banyan Tree Essay Contest sponsored by Asian Human Services ( AHS ) .
'I'm not trying to change the whole system, but share my experience in any way I can for people with similar experiences,' K., 30, told Windy City Times.
AHS, the largest Pan-Asian not-for-profit organization, sponsored the contest in honor of Asian Heritage Month, which is May. The essay required contestants to relate to the experiences, strengths and hopes of a gay Asian or Pacific Islander. The Banyan Tree program provides outreach and education to the gay Asian and Pacific Islander and MSM community about HIV/AIDS-related issues.
Arch Jamjun placed second with his essay 'G.A.M.,' while Young Sun Han placed third.
In 'Gaining Self-Confidence,' K. explains the role volunteer work played in helping him overcome strong feelings of self-hatred brought on by being stereotyped and rejected as a gay Asian. He learned to love himself and move on. 'Life is a journey, not a destination,' he wrote. 'My human revolution has just begun.'
For K., helping others is the key to his happiness. He volunteers for AHS, Soka Gakkai International and Horizon Hospice Services. He also lent a hand at the Anti-Cruelty Society and plans to volunteer at the Gay Games.
'I've received so much more than I give,' K. said. He gains self-awareness and happiness in exchange for his compassion for others, he added. His newfound self-confidence also helps him reach his personal goals.
K. originates from Taiwan and moved to Chicago in 2001 after attending college in Indiana. The Chinese Buddhist enjoys a variety of activities including playing the flute, cooking for friends and rollerblading. 'I'm always trying to expand my horizons,' he said.