Pictured While Buffalo Grove saw their own unique prom king and queen duo, last Friday, Oct. 14, DePaul University's Spectrum hosted the 2nd Annual Chicago Collegiate Coming Out Ball, co-hosted by numerous local college and university GLBT groups. All proceeds of the 'Venetian Masquerade' went to About Face Youth Theatre and Transgender Youth Resource Advocacy program. Photo by Amy Wooten
By Jason P. Freeman
Openly gay Buffalo Grove High School seniors, Ryan Kuperman, 17, and Jen Wohlner, 17, were elected Homecoming King and Queen by their peers, nearly 600 senior class students, during their school's Homecoming Dance celebration Oct. 7. Approximately 85 other 'straight' students were in the running as well.
This can be seen as an amazing commendation for both Kuperman and Wohlner as young gay individuals, and the LGBT community at large. Times, they are a changing. But who wore the tiara?
Buffalo Grove High School psychologist Jennifer Zacharski has seen a large increase in LGBT awareness on campus over the last five years. She credits this partially to the presence of the student run Gay-Straight Alliance ( GSA ) , for which she has been faculty sponsor since its initiation.
'Students have become more tolerant,' said Zacharski, 'and there are more students openly out. Yet we still hear the insults and things being referred to as 'gay.' Mainly, students aren't aware of the effects this negative language can have. We strive to educate them on that.'
All six high schools in township district 214 have GSA groups. However, Buffalo Grove was one of the first to implement this student organization with a mission of 'uniting people with a common goal of forming a safe, open-minded, and educated environment [ and ] promoting equality and acceptance regardless of personality, lifestyle and sexual orientation.' All district 214 schools are also involved in the Chicago chapter of the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network ( glsenchicago.org ) and take part in their annual Day of Silence event, a protest against the 'silencing' of LGBT discrimination.
Started by a group of five high school students in 2001, the Buffalo Grove GSA has since executed school-wide surveys to establish the current climate toward LGBT people, specifically in their school. They offer group talk sessions regarding issues that affect gay youth and have attended LGBT-affirmative productions, offered by About Face Theater, at other schools.
Both Kuperman and Wohlner have been members of their school's GSA since their sophomore and freshman years, respectively. Kuperman says he was aware of the organization's activities since before his freshman enrollment in 2002.
Aside from the GSA, both students are actively involved on the Buffalo Grove campus. Kuperman plays clarinet for the school's bands and symphony orchestra as well as being a member of the Varsity Cheerleading squad. He looks forward to applying to USC for next fall to pursue a career in musical performance. Wohlner takes part in the improv comedy club as well as the math, speech and acting teams. She is also a member of the National Honor Society and is a National Merit Commended Scholar. Though she's uncertain where she'll be next fall, she's applying to seven universities and plans to study fine/visual arts and English.
On their election to Homecoming court, Kuperman sees it as both an honor and a positive advance in the perception of LGBT people. He is proud his school not only came together in support of someone openly gay, but that the winner is also, 'not the stereotypical high school athlete.' Wohlner echoes his sentiments, and adds that what she calls 'the new gay teen' is actively aiding in the fostering of positive change in 'America's current headlining culture war, not by protesting or anything radical, but by simply fitting in.'
'We're very proud of Ryan and Jen and of the student body, who were being progressive and supportive of them. [ Ryan and Jen ] are great kids and the students agree,' said Zarcharski.'
For all their involvement and outgoing free spirits, Kuperman and Wohlner were the 'natural' choice. Sexuality didn't play a part for many of those voters.
Yet it may have played a small role in the actions of the elected students during their Homecoming dance. Wohlner says it was she, in fact, who wore the tiara, but only for half the time. She surrendered it to Kuperman for the later parts of the evening. He wanted to wear it as well.
From the ChicagoPride Website.
