By Mary L. Trump, Ph.D.
$28; Simon and Schuster; 227 pages.
You hadn't seen that container in ages.
You really can't remember when you put it on the shelf. Sometime this year, six years ago, when you moved last? What's in it must be worth something, though, or you wouldn't've saved it. Now, as in the new book Too Much and Never Enough, by Mary L. Trump, Ph.D., digging may yield answers.
No one has to explain to you who Donald Trump is but, for anyone who's been completely out of the loop, Mary Trump is Donald's niece. ( She uses his first name, always, and to avoid confusion, so will we. ) Trump has a Ph.D. in psychology, worked at Manhattan Psychiatric Center while in school, was once a therapist, and taught graduate psychology. The point is, she got chops and it shows, especially when this booka look at her family and, specifically, her Uncle Donaldreads like something from the True Medicine genre. Indeed, medically-based passages are nearly emotionless in their clinicality.
To fully understand this story and where it leads, Trump begins with brief accounts of her great-grandfather, who came to the United States from Germany in order to avoid military service. After the elder man died, Trump's grandfather "Fred" ( as she refers to him ) became business partners with his mother, and expanded the family fortune.
Trump asserts that Fred was "a high-functioning sociopath" who put his own self-interests above everything else. He was cruel for cruelty's sake and ultimately used that against his eldest son and namesake, "Freddy," whom Fred hoped would assume the family business but who didn't have the heart for it.
When Freddy proved to be a disappointment, Fred turned to Donald, his second son, and gave him free-reign, an open bank account, and the paternal approval Trump suggests that Donald craved.
Once you get this far into Too Much and Never Enough, it shouldn't surprise you; none of it will, going forward, because you know how this book ends. Long before that, though, Trump shares details of growing up, noting nuances within the Trump sibling group and the family at large, learning to read silences, and hearing regular racist or homophobic comments that made her, years later, keep mum on her marriage to ( and subsequent divorce from ) a woman. The cruelty, as she describes it, can sometimes read like a TV documentary on wolves at a kill. Disappointment was thick on both sides.
Readers may occasionally note something like sour grapes, too, but even that offers more of an understanding of Trump's observations. While this memoir somewhat culminates with the fight over Trump's grandfather's will, a skewed inheritance, subsequent lawsuit, and the truth she says she found with the urging of the New York Times, the storyas she indicateswon't begin to be finished until January, or a January four years hence.
Until then, this is a must-read for left and right alike but beware that it might leave you feeling mournfulnot for any one person, but overall, in general: Too Much and Never Enough just contains a lot of sadness.
Want more? Then look for The Art of Her Deal: The Untold Story of Melania Trump, by Mary Jordan; or The Strange Case of Donald J. Trump: A Psychological Reckoning, by Dan P. McAdams.