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BLACK GAY SOUL IN SOUTH AFRICA
by Mubarak Dahir
2001-11-21

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I am in a group of 16 gay men touring Langa Township, and the discomfort of some of my fellow companions is palpable. The unremitting poverty that engulfs most of the quarter million residents of South Africa's oldest township, on the outskirts of Cape Town, comes as an unanticipated shock to many of my fellow gay travelers, as it would to all but the world's poorest residents.

At first glance, it may not appear the ideal vacation spot to bring a bunch of affluent homosexuals. Located only a few miles from downtown Cape Town, the township seems a world away from South Africa's gayest city.

But it is in the heart of Langa that I learn most about the soul of gay South Africa.

Luckily, the host of the tour, David Rubin, president of DavidTours and one of a handful of travel directors offering gay-specific jaunts to South Africa, understands the importance of experiencing the townships, saturated as they are with the country's history of oppression, its lingering poverty, and its surprising optimism.

But Rubin goes beyond the standard tour of Langa Township, available and highly recommended to any tourist who wants to get under the skin of the new South Africa. At the end of the powerfully honest expedition through Langa's crowded homes and muddy streets, Rubin deposits his band of open-eyed gay tourists at Lelapa Restaurant. In Xhosa, the dominant language of Langa, the name means "hope." Inside, I am about to get a double course of it.

The first comes from the tiny eatery's matronly owner, a small, cheerful woman draped in a plain green apron and wearing a tightly wrapped headscarf that is a kaleidoscope of colors. Her fierce pride and entrepreneurial spirit permeate the place, from the immaculately scrubbed tile floors to the enthusiastic welcome she offers her openly gay guests.

"This is the new South Africa," she says, almost admonishingly, when I ask if she has ever before had her cozy establishment totally overtaken by gay men. "We have no more room for drawing those kind of differences." I am surprised when she cites the country's new Constitution, and the protections it specifically grants the country's gay and lesbian citizens. Throughout my trip, gay men and lesbians point to the Constitution's progressive stand on sexual orientation as a cornerstone for the change that has taken hold here for gays and lesbians in the past seven years. That an elderly Black woman in the heart of one of the historically anti-gay townships would do the same is remarkable testimony to the powerful transformation of South African society on fronts beyond the obvious one of race.

But her ambivalence to the sexual orientation of her guests is as pragmatic as it is idealistic. She is a new entrepreneur, and as a savvy businesswoman she knows better than to turn away guests of any creed.

Grabbing my elbow, she now steers me in another direction, both physically and conversationally. From the front room dotted with half a dozen tables covered in hand-stitched cloths, we move to the kitchen. There, she proudly spells out the ingredients and spices stewing in great iron kettles on the stove. She eventually spreads the feast on a long table in the anteroom separating the cooking and dining areas. I pile my plate high, sampling all of the 11 exotic delicacies, from chackalacka ( a mix of cabbage, green beans, baked beans, green peppers and onions stewed in tomato sauce and flavored with curry ) to moroho ( spinach, onions and squash mixed with a liberal toss of fresh chiles ) to green sweet potatoes doused in a blend of sugar and salt.

Plate in hand, I take a seat in the dining room where I get my second serving of hope, served up by Roy Anthony.

Tall, lanky and theatrical, Anthony is dressed in tight jeans and a navy blue pull-over. Two silver chains dangle around his neck. His thick black hair stands at attention in a flat top, while the sides of his head are close-cropped, almost shaved. The result gives maximum exposure to his prominent bone structure, highlighted over his eyes with two thinly painted eyebrows.

A hair stylist, the 25-year-old youth talks about dressing to look his best, his favorite dance clubs in the city and the difficulties of getting alone-time with his boyfriend since they both live at home. In many ways, Anthony could almost be any young gay man anywhere.

Growing up in the township as an overtly gay teen was a bleakly different story, remembers Anthony.

The other boys "used to call me moffie all the time," he says, invoking the South African equivalent of the word fag. "They used to chase us and attack us with their hands." Even when he wasn't being taunted, "I constantly heard rumors, people talking about me."

The big change, he says, came when the new Constitution was written, explicitly spelling out protection for gays and lesbians. While recognizing the legal power behind such a document, he says for him personally and for many others, the transformation was less about amending the law than it was about guiding social attitudes.

He admits there are plenty of challenges as he and his generation forge their new gay identity.

One of the biggest, he concedes, is overcoming the history of racial tensions that linger between the country's white and Black gay men. He notes that while the gay bars are not "officially" segregated—as they once were—many still are "in reality." And just as important as racial equality is the issue of economic segregation, he points out.

"I don't think I could ever have a white boyfriend," he confesses. "I don't think I could have that kind of love for a white person, because of all that has happened."

Despite those misgivings, however, he insists there is not widespread fear or anxiety between white and Black gays in general. "You can't believe how things have improved," he says shaking his head. "Now we have a future together."

But even more, he relishes the bonds he has made with other Black gay men in the township. He knows of eight others, "and we stick together like that!' he says, clasping his hands in an emphatic motion.

Most in the previous generation of South Africa's Black gay men, he knows, "didn't have the luxury of struggling to create a gay identity. With the political situation [ apartheid ] , it was all about race."

But the 1994 Constitution "allowed me to take on a new attitude," he explains. "I thought, 'I no longer have to take this [ harassment ] from others!' It was a powerful personal revelation. And I think that was the important thing that happened to people like me all over South Africa. It gave us the power to go out and make changes."

Dahir receives e-mail at MubarakDah@aol.com


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