Raising 14 kids hasn't stopped Otis Mack from living his jet-set lifestyle of hosting parties, traveling, being fabulous and, above all, giving back as a mentor and father figure.
Mack balances a duo career as a case aide at the Children Home and Aide Society and as the founder of Heavy Diva, a boutique events and promotions company. As a case aide, Otis works closely with children and placing them in understanding homes with proper foster parents. Affectionately known as "Dad" among his children and even parents, Mack treats and sees his work as more of a calling rather then a career. He has been so dedicated to his calling that, over the course of 14 years, Mack has taken in 14 children as a foster parent and has adopted four.
"I had a great mother, so I know how to be a great woman," joked Mack about raising three girls. Even through the emotional challenges and other barriers, Mack soldiers on for his children and merits his good upbringing as one of the reasons why he is adept at working with children and helping them to navigate through their development and obstacles.
"I'm a strong man. I had great parents and I know what these kids need —and knowing that it takes love, understanding and patience to deal with the challenges. I guess I have the gift of patience because it takes a lot of it," said Mack.
When Mack isn't cooking, mentoring or taking in one of his "children," he is running Heavy Diva and traipsing across town as Olamay Bancock—his drag queen alter ego. Also known as "Chicago's Heavy Diva," Mack started his promotions company 20 years ago in hopes of reaching the young LGBT community through fun and entertainment. Mack sees Heavy Diva as a fun and social contribution to the LGBT community.
"I believe I'm a trusted voice in the community. I'm that guy who kids listen to and can trust, and can confide in, and won't try to sleep with them," said Mack.
Since then, Heavy Diva has thrown pride events around the nation including Dallas, Texas; Detroit, Mich.; Miami, Fla.; and Memphis, Tenn. Mack also makes it a point to organize a free fundraiser/show twice a year to support an organization whose mission centers on HIV/AIDS outreach, prevention and care. Mack sees these shows as a creative approach to keeping LGBT youth aware on what's going on the HIV/AIDS research landscape.
Currently, inspired by his travels abroad, Mack has organized the 4th Annual Strip Down in Chi-Town Sunday, July 3, at The Den, 1610 W. Grand. For $20, guests will enjoy a provocative event that will feature an open martini bar and exotic dancers from around the nation. "Come and get your life," teased Mack about his edgy event. Rather Mack is in the field working to place foster kids with supportive and loving guardians or in bar entertaining guests as Olamay Bancock for a benefit, he knows his life is about giving.
"If I can help someone along the way, then my living won't be in vain," said Mack.
STATS
Name
Otis Mack
Age
50
Neighborhood
Romeoville
Favorite restaurant
Half Shell on Diversey
Relationship status
Single on Fridays
Pets
Two dogs ( Chihuahua and terrier )
Hometown
Chicago
PHOTOS COURTESY OF MACK
